Lyndan Coleman
A wife who has great character, regardless of her outside apreance (beautiful by worldly standards or not) she is incredibly valuable. Her husband knows this and despite his flaws he has full confidence and trust in her. She cares greatly for her husband and values the promise she made to God so stay by his side through good times and bad, til death parts them.
As a married man it is very easy to take for granted all of the things your wife does. Just finding a good woman to stick by you for the rest of your life is amazing. As men, the media raises us to believe that we are superior, the boss, the bread winner and the woman is weak, and should stay home and raise the kids. We are taught that it is ok to go out every Friday for "Guys Night" while she stays home with the kids, she better not argue and say you need to stay home with the family because, society tells us she is just being a "Nag". We are brain-washed as teens into believing that it is ok to have sex before marriage, in fact if you're not having it, you need to find a girl who will. So basically we enter marriage thinking we are the boss and the wife better do as I say "ur ur ur"(I'm beating my chest). The Father has taught me to throw all of those thoughts out, it didn't happen overnight, not even over a couple of years, its a process. I have accepted my role not as the "Boss" but as the spiritual leader of my home. I thank God for giving me my wife, and giving her the patience to put up with a man who was raised by T.V. and secular music. She is my best friend and partner, til death do us part.